Indoor or out, there are plenty of activities to keep your family busy in the new year!
A new year and a new month are just around the corner. If you’ve resolved to find amazing new adventures with your kids, we’ve got ideas—one for each day of the month, in fact. In between your snowy sledding adventures and your busy back-to-school schedules, try one of these family activities that’s anything but boring.
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1. Celebrate the New Year at a National Park (psst…entrance fees are waived on January 16 because it is Martin Luther King Jr. Day). These popular parks have the outdoor bells and whistles families love or try a little-known park for a change of scenery.
2. Looking for other ways to celebrate 2023’s arrival with the kids? We’ve got family friendly ideas you can do at home.
3. Ditch your family’s New Year’s resolutions for new routines, instead. It’s a great way for kids (and parents!) to set and keep goals all year long.
4. Break out winter activity sheets for a quick family activity during the witching hour.
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5. Get your kiddos ready to head back to the classroom after a long winter break with memory games they’ll love.
18. Whether you’ve got enough snow on the ground to build a whole snow family (or you’re just dreaming of winter’s favorite frozen stuff), these snowman snacks will make kids smile.
From only-in-San Diego events to nature galore, here are 100 reasons why San Diego is the best place for kids and families
Lucky for us, San Diego is one of the top vacation destinations in the nation. And while it may be the 2nd biggest city in the state, its laid-back lifestyle and easy-breezy attitude make it feel more like a beach town (with all the glorious bells and whistles of metropolitan hub like access to cultural events, world-class museums and food—let’s not forget the delicious food). From incredible parks that kids will love, and only-in-San-Diego bucket-worthy activities to hidden gems sprinkled around SoCal, we’ve rounded up the best 100 things to do in San Diego—whether you’re a local and are looking for some things to do or just visiting for a bit—this list will keep your calendar full and your memories stacked all year long.
1. With over 30 beaches dotting San Diego's gorgeous coastline, hitting the sand and surf tops our list of must-dos. With so many options, you can find a sandy stretch that's right for your crew. Our detailed beach guide highlights the best beaches for babies, toddlers and big kids, as well as where to go to learn how to catch a wave or putter around a tide pool.
2. Show your kiddos what life was like living on a floating city with a visit to the USS Midway Museum—the largest aircraft carrier in the world that you can tour. The self-guided audio tour, narrated by former sailors, offers a lot of history and drops loads of knowledge like the fact that over 200,000 sailors have worked there throughout the years. PS: Your budding pilot can earn Junior Pilot Wings—visit the information booth for more intel.
4. Spend the day exploring the magnificent 1,200-acre urban cultural park, Balboa Park, hands down one of the best things our city has to offer its residents and guests. Our insider guide to Balboa Park has everything you need to know to make the most of your visit with kids, including hidden gems like the California Tower where you can climb a secret staircase and get one of the best views of the city, and how to reach Junior Ranger status by completing the Junior Ranger Scavenger Hunt.
5. Ride the historic Carousel at Seaport Village. Handcarved in 1895 and only four bucks a whirl, it's both affordable and iconic. When you’re done with the spin you can stroll along the bay, grab a pretzel and lemonade, then head out to watch kites flying in the air in the park near Seaport Village.
6. People from all around the world flock to the world-famous San Diego Zoo. The most popular exhibits are the panda bear family and the polar bear plunge. Both have long lines so hit these spots first or be prepared to wait. Also keep an eye out for the oldest resident of the zoo, a 100 year old Galapogos tortoise named Speed. And in the summer, you can rock and roar into the dark with Night Time Zoo experience where you can hang with the animals in the evening.
7. A trip to Cabrillo National Monument is another must-visit. It's where explorer Juan Rodriguez Carbrillo became the first European to set foot on the west coast in 1542. Ask for a free Cabrillo Journal newspaper at the Visitor Center. The back of the paper has a section with tasks for kids ages 3 and up—if they complete it, they'll become a Junior Ranger. Cabrillo also hosts plenty of workshops and camps devoted to youth interested in STEM activities.
8. This year, celebrate the 50th anniversary of the San Diego Zoo Safari Park with a visit to see white rhinos and roaming giraffes. In honor of their golden anniversary, the park is hosting a 90-minute tour of the Safari Park's Nairobi Village where you'll see iconic wildlife including gorillas and elephants as well as get a chance to go behind the scenes to areas not typically available to the public.
9. Unwind with a day of endless play at The New Children’s Museum, where all of the super-fun, interactive exhibits will entertain and educate kids. Did you know they also have a north county location in Del Mar? Remember, February is Museum Month in San Diego and all museums are half-price!
10. If your crew loves some healthy competition, this will get them jazzed up. Follow our list of San Diego's quirky landmarks (think the Crab Carillon Musical Bridge and an outrageous topiary garden) and see how many you can visit.
11. Go back in time to the 1850s with a visit to Old Town where kids can sit in a stagecoach, eat homemade tortillas, visit an old schoolhouse and learn some hands-on skills of the trades of yesteryear. It’s also where Father Junipero Serra established the first of California’s 21 missions in 1769, which also became the first permanent Spanish settlement in the region.
12. Descend into Sunny Jim Sea Cave, the only cave you can access by land on the California coastline. There are 144 stairs involved so come prepared to both descend and climb. Tours are about 15-20 minutes and are self-guided.
13. Get up close and personal with a dazzling array of sea creatures from sea horses and jellyfish to sharks and sting rays at Birch Aquarium. Also, if you have kids interested in learning what it's like to be a scientist, Birch Aquarium offers opportunities to interact with staff members, STEM events, summer camps and other outstanding resources.
14. Venture from San Diego to San Juan Capistrano or Solana Beach all the way to Disneyland on the train! The Coaster, The Trolly & The Sprinter all make for an adventurous day trip that train-loving kids will go loco for.
15. San Diego has more farms than any other county in the country and 92% of the farms are family-owned so it's easy to get outside, dig in some dirt, learn where your food comes from and meet and greet animals from camels to alpacas. For a real adventure, check out Oasis Camel Dairy where you can try some chocolate made from camel’s milk.
16. Expose your kiddos to the world of art without worrying about museum etiquette at one of these must-see outdoor art walks in San Diego. Queen Califia’s Magical Circle created by artist Niki de Saint Phalle at Kit Carson Park is a favorite. Her freestanding, whimsical sculptures (9 of them!) are sure to delight.
17. Can you tell the difference between a seal and a sea lion? Take a trip to La Jolla Sea Caves to see both and keep a lookout for external ear flaps. Sea Lions have them and seals don't. The caves are also a great place to go kayaking for families with kids 6 and up.
18. Bask in the gentle bay breeze and soak in the sounds at the Rady Shell Stadium. A stunning mix of the Sydney Opera House and the Hollywood Bowl, this outdoor venue tops the list of best outdoor music experiences in the world. Insider Tip: Some shows have rehearsals during the day that are completely free—bring your kiddos to one of these and enjoy the show.
19. Take your water baby to get wet and wild in the huge fountain area at Waterfront Park. There’s even a giant grassy area right by the fountain where you can lay towels, have picnics and enjoy the waterfront views.
20. Rent a stand-up paddle board, Aqua Cycle, canoe or other water sports gear for a day of fun at Carlsbad Lagoon. Insider Tip: if you have your own equipment you can access the lagoon at 4700 Bayshore Dr. in Carlsbad. It's a perfect beach spot for little kids to splash and play or for older ones to go out on the water.
21. Go say hello to the sea lions basking in the wild at the La Jolla Children’s Pool. Afterward, grab a bite to eat at Cody’s restaurant which serves a belly-pleasing crab cake Benedict for the crustacean-crazy crowd.
22. Fly a kite at Dusty Rhodes Park, home to the oldest children’s kite festival in the United States, The Ocean Beach Kite Festival. If you're around for the event in May, attendees are encouraged to build their own kite—prizes are awarded for best decorated!
23. Go buy some peanuts and Cracker Jacks and root for the home team at a Padres baseball game. For an extra-special kid-friendly perk, go on a Sun. and enjoy Kidsfest, when gates open early (two hours before the first pitch) for families to enjoy bounce houses and other inflatables, games, face painters, balloon artists and more kid-friendly activities in Gallagher Square.
25. Enjoy the fruits of your labor by picking apples or strawberries straight from the trees and bushes at these local U-pick apple farms and strawberry patches. Some even have hayrides, corn mazes and other perks your family will love.
26. Home to the Surf Hall of Fame and Surf Film Festival, San Diego is synonymous with surf culture. Encourage your little grom to catch a wave and become a true San Diego local.
27. Visit the bronze statue of Kate Session, known as the 'Mother of Balboa Park,' and give your kiddos a rundown of these influential women that helped shape San Diego into the place it is today. This particular monument is located in the southwest corner of the Sefton Plaza, near the Sixth Ave. entrance, where Session can look over and protect the park.
28. Named one of the top North American Gardens worth traveling to, San Diego Botanical Garden is an ideal place to spend the day exploring nature. Kids will love climbing and playing in a gigantic treehouse in the Hamilton Children’s Garden at San Diego Botanic Gardens.
30. Bringing Southern California's train history to life, visit the San Diego Model Railroad Museum where Thomas the Tank Engine lovers can enjoy toy trains and tracks galore. Don't miss the 'Toy Train Gallery; the “Choo-Choo cam” fitted onto a running train provides visitors with a first-person virtual view of the layout.
31. From the newly opened Jeni's Splendid Ice Cream to San Diego's oldest shop, Niederfrank's in National City, get a lick (or two) of one of the best ice cream spots in the San Diego.
32. Camp cliffside at San Elijo State Beach. Some campsites offer breathtaking views of the sunset and the coastline. And parents need not worry about rip currents here—San Elijo is a one of our favorite family beaches with its mellow breaks and shallow water near the shore.
33. Our insider's guide to Sesame Place has everything you need to know like tips on where to go to nurse and warm a bottle or that you can get a cashless wristband so you don't need to lug your wallet around.
34. Ride the Giant Dipper, the iconic wooden roller coaster that’s called Belmont Park home since 1925. If you feel adventurous make it a night ride and follow up the fun with some after-dark laser tag.
36. Have some good, old-fashioned fun at Bates Nut Farm where activities include everything from a pumpkin patch and harvest and nut tours, a farm zoo and a huge homemade fudge and candy shop.
37. When the calendar says it's fall, San Diegans head to Lake Arrowhead to experience the crisp autumn air and see the leaves change colors on the trees. You'll almost think you're in Vermont during SoCal's leaf-peeping season.
39. Budding thespians will enjoy watching their peers in a theatrical performance at San Diego Junior Theater.
40. Unplug and take a break from all things digital at a botanical garden. Kids can chase butterflies while you enjoy a picnic.
41. Plan a family date night the whole crew will remember. Park 101 in Carlsbad Village keeps kids busy playing with life-size Connect Four, Giant Jenga or corn hole, while parents sip watermelon mimosas and catch a few rays.
42. Learn about science, art and world cultures with a visit to San Diego Children’s Discovery Museum where kids can play with engaging indoor and outdoor hands-on exhibits.
43. Go stargazing around San Diego with an astronomer at the Fleet Science Center or catch a planetarium show at Palomar College.
44. Let kids explore The Backyard at The Nat, a nature-inspired indoor play area that educates and entertains.
45. Ride a Steam Locomotive, Speeder or Trolley on the Poway Midland Railroad at Old Poway Park.
46. Rough it by tent or make it a lux glamping vacay, either way, there's a mecca of opportunities to enjoy the great outdoors from the beaches to the mountains at one of these top camping spots in San Diego.
50. Relax with a glass of wine in the countryside at one of these local family-friendly wineries with kid perks. The bonfire nights, cool animal encounters, ice rinks and playgrounds all make visiting these vineyards a family affair.
51. Rock out at the Museum of Making Music where kids can explore interactive instrument playing areas.
52. Book a mom & me or a dad & me adventure at this popular nearby treehouse perched just six blocks from The San Diego Bay, Balboa Park and San Diego Zoo and just three blocks to the Village of Little Italy.
53. Snooze alongside wild animals at the San Diego Zoo Safari Park’s Roar & Snore sleepover and get an after-hours look at the animals, guided walks and a campfire program—then wake up to breakfast the following morning.
54. Go on the road and dig up some fun with a field trip to the San Diego Archeological Center. The free (donation-based) museum gives little archeologists an inside look at how natives lived in San Diego for the past 12,000 years.
55. Feed sea turtles and come nose to beak with Bald and Golden eagles at The Living Coast Discovery Center. Afterward, treat yourself to lunch at Old California Coffee House and Eatery. Their vegan and gluten-free menu items are top-notch.
57. Take a 3-minute train ride through four acres of Balboa Park on a miniature railroad aboard a model G16 (a rare antique—there are as few as fifty currently remaining in the US)!
58. Eat your way through the amazing food selections at the 22,000-square-foot Liberty Public Market then explore the shops at Liberty Station. Explore more of San Diego’s best food halls with culinary delights to please every family member.
60. In many cultures peacocks are regarded as a symbol of good luck, good fortune, and immortality. Visit old rancho and hidden treasure, Leo Carrillo Ranch where you can see beautiful peacocks roaming the grounds and learn some history.
61. De-stress by watching the giant koi fish swim in ponds at the Japanese Friendship Garden. There are 20 varieties of fish in the pond—make it a game and see how many your kiddos can find.
62. Learn about the Old Point Loma Lighthouse and see how lighthouse keepers lived while enjoying the spectacular views of San Diego.
65. Play tourist for the day (or weekend) and rediscover Oceanside. This north county city is the buzz of the county with a bevy of new restaurants, art shows and events happening regularly. Must-dos include The Top Gun house, The Surf Museum, and a walk on the iconic pier.
66. Take a family bike ride through Coronado and visit the iconic Hotel Del and Coronado Beach where the shimmery, golden sand glistens.
67. On almost any given day, you can find a farmers market ripe with crowds picking the most delectable produce of the season. Here's our pick for the most family-friendly farmer’s market in the city.
68. Channel your inner Prince or Princess and raise a pinky at one of these spots to have high tea with your young royals.
69. There may not be a more ubiquitous food in San Diego than the taco! No need to wait for Taco Tuesday, sink your teeth into the most scrumptious tacos any day of the week.
71. Escape to a Mediterranean-style vacation that's just a ferry ride away. Family-friendly Catalina Island offers everything you need for a fun-filled getaway.
72. Go on a ghost hunt at The Whaley House, or, for the more easily scared, tour the House just for its history rather its hauntings.
73. Escape to the animal kingdom at Children’s Nature Retreat where your kids will get to feed, pet and bond with domestic, rescued livestock and exotic animals from around the world including zebras, camels and miniature horses.
74. Slide into a delightfully free story time at the Athenaeum. Great for kids ages 1-9.
75. Make like a hipster and go unearth the hidden gems of the super cool North Park neighborhood.
78. Take a stroll on the San Dieguito Lagoon Interpretive Walk and find 20 discovery points along the way to learn about the importance of the San Dieguito River plants, animals and Kumeyaay people who lived there.
79. Discover a hidden waterfall in the biggest canyon in San Diego. Los Peñasquitos Canyon is best for sure-footed hikers as you climb around rocks plus, it's six miles in and out.
81. In need of a bunny snuggling, chicken feeding, pony-riding adventure? Take your little party animal that goes wild for creatures at the best petting farms and zoos in the city.
83. Dr. Seuss (Theodor Seuss Geisel) lived in La Jolla for several decades. We show you where to spy Dr. Seuss delights all over town and see a historical first edition of Dr. Seuss stories.
84. Calling all Park Rangers! Meet up with Ranger Heidi for a nature story and craft at Mission Trails Regional Park. They also host guided nature walks and wildlife tracking walks your little ranger will flock to. At 7,220 acres, this park is one of the largest urban parks in the United States.
86. Go to the spot serving burgers and chocolate malts since 1969. Hodads is a San Diego favorite and even make their own beer that's certainly worth a try.
87. Go on a sea safari and study ocean life up close by exploring one of these bustling tide pools.
89. Score a hole-in-one at Pelly's Mini Golf where you can choose from two ocean-themed courses. When you wrap up the round, head to nearby Viewpoint Brewery Company for food and drinks with views from their outdoor patio of the San Dieguito Lagoon.
90. Meet exotic birds and talk to colorful parrots at the Free Flight Exotic Bird Sanctuary. Don't be surprised if you get talked into adopting a parot!
92. Make a splash at these mesmerizing, photo-worthy urban fountains, one of which is a whale standing tall at a height of 39 feet and 10 inches—it’s the second largest bronze sculpture ever cast in the U.S.
93. During the spring, don't miss the chance to get lost in a sea of dreamy, colorful ranunculus at The Flower Fields at Carlsbad Ranch. The nearly fifty acres of Giant Tecolote Ranunculus flowers are the showstopper but there's also a sweet pea-maze and a U-pick blueberry field that your little buds will also love.
94. Catch a wave at the California Surf Museum to learn about how surfboards evolved, read pro surfer Bethany Hamilton’s story about how she survived a shark attack at age 13 and continued to compete—even after losing her arm (!), and touch Kelly Slater’s surfboard.
97. Help kids channel their inner calm (along with some lovely expansive ocean views) in the magical setting that is Meditation Gardens in Encinitas.
98. Slide through a gigantic bunch of grapes or climb aboard a colossal pirate ship at one of our favorite playgrounds. One is BYOC—as in bring your own cardboard, for sliding down an insanely fun turf hill!
99. One of the coolest parks in the country, Anza-Borrego State Park, is a short driving distance from San Diego. Extend your stay by booking a glam trailer during wildflower season and enjoy the scenery. The park is also home to more than 130 metal sculptures that'll be sure to captivate your little artist.
100. Go on a family date night at Luche Libra Taco Shop. Book the champions table in advance. You can thank us later.
Looking for a new take on Taco Tuesday? Try Cuban food! While just as flavorful as Mexican food, Cuban food recipes are often less spicy and not as fried, making it the perfect cuisine to try with kids. Discover your favorite from our collection of everything from the traditional Cuban sandwich and black beans to the perfect Medianoche bread recipe.
Can you make a Cuban sandwich without medianoche bread? You can, but with this easy recipe from Hostess at Heart, you shouldn't! With simple ingredients and novice baking skills required, you'll be whipping up Cubanos in no time.
The Daring Gourmet's Ropa Vieja recipe is so easy, that it will quickly become a part of your menu rotation. Made with flank steak, veggies, and lots of fragrant spices, this traditional shredded beef dish easily pairs with rice and beans—things even picky eaters like! Dinner is served.
Remember that medianoche bread? It's time to whip up that Cubano sandwich now! This Cuban food recipe from Simply Recipes pairs traditional ingredients like pork, ham, cheese, and pickles into a hearty sandwich that is beyond filling.
Cuban stuffed roast is the stuff of holiday dinners. While it is a labor of love, this savory roast stuffed with chorizo, olives, and garlic is even harder to pass up once it's covered in gravy. Your little meat-eaters will have no problem eating this up! Get the recipe from Magnolia Days.
Whether you use dried or canned beans, you can still make authentic Cuban beans in a flash. Ingredients like green pepper and onions come together in this recipe from A Couple Cooks to create an easy side dish or main meal that easily pairs with rice.
Ground beef with cinnamon and raisins? Toss in green olives and you've got Beef Picadillo! This simple recipe from A Spicy Perspective makes dinnertime adventurous and quick. Serve with rice or in taco shells, and everyone is on their way to full tummies.
You've had flan, but have you had Cuban Flan de Leche? The ultra-creamy dessert is made with condensed and evaporated milk and finished with a creme brûlée topping. We love Bacon is Magic's recipe, which is easy and quick.
Condensed milk is back in this creamy and traditional Arroz con Leche recipe. Cuban rice pudding is made with simple ingredients and just a little attention. This recipe from Coco & Ash walks you through the super kid-friendly dessert in just an hour.
You know Atlanta’s best museums, top hikes for families, and the city’s most popular playgrounds. But even if you’re a local, we bet you might not have visited our favorite hidden gems in Atlanta. These little known spots are worth a look, especially when you bring the kids along. They’ll love the slightly creepy (but cool) found art trail and the seemingly magical secret doors that you’ll find hidden around the city. All that’s left is to find these amazing Atlanta hidden gems everyone in the family will enjoy.
Doll’s Head Trail
Drive a few miles outside downtown Atlanta, and you’ll find yourself at the Doll’s Head Trail entrance. Cutting through Constitution Lakes Park, this trail is dedicated to found art. The 125-acre preserve surrounding the path is great for bird and wildlife watching. The original artist, Joel Slaton, encouraged visitors to contribute to the doll art with their own found pieces such as bottles, truck parts and bricks. See what you can find and add to this hidden trail that’s just as fascinating for kids as it is for their grownups.
Constitution Lakes Park
1305 S. River Industrial Blvd. S.E.
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Nestled in the North Buckhead neighborhood, Blue Heron Nature Preserve is a true Atlanta hidden gem, and home to the three-mile Blueway Trail, which allows families to experience 30 acres of woodlands, wetlands and wide open green space–all without leaving the city. The preserve offers tons of nature programs for kids of all ages. But the best part is that they’ll even create a custom program if you can’t find what you want.
Follow #TinyDoorsATL to discover more than 20 little doors throughout the city. Look for these Atlanta hidden gems along the BeltLine near some amazing wide-open views of the city and 33 miles of urban trails. Create a fun family scavenger hunt to see if you can find all the tiny doors. Because these little doors are hidden in plain sight, it’s fun to stop and examine each one while you enjoy the sights and sounds of Atlanta.
Japanese-American sculptor Isamu Noguchi built one playground in his entire life, and it is in Atlanta. In 1976, the artist created bright and severe modern art as a fun playground area for kids to enjoy. After years of fun (and graffiti), a local group restored the playspace to its original glory in Piedmont Park. The artist designed the space to invite open-ended play without specific purposes for each area. Today, the site is used by a summer camp run by the Piedmont Park Conservancy, and there is a weekend farmer’s market nearby.
Who doesn’t love a good family photo op? We found the perfect spot where bright rainbow stripes stretch across an intersection of Atlanta’s Piedmont Avenue. The colorful lines serve as a symbol of unity and acceptance. It both honors the tragedy of the Pulse shooting in Orlando, Florida and playfully marks the Piedmont area as the hub for Atlanta’s LGBTQ culture.
Insider Tip: This is a busy city intersection, so try and visit during quieter times of the day.
991 Piedmont Ave. N.E.
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Brito Supermarket
Stop by this small Mexican grocery store with all the meat, fresh vegetables and herbs you need to whip up a fiesta dinner of your own. The main dish is mouth-watering smoked chicken. You’ll need to go to the meat counter to order. The chicken comes with two small salsas that taste amazing. You’ll find everything you need inside the market to create the perfect Taco Tuesday.
With everything going on in the world over the last two years, our little ones are more curious than ever about viruses and germs. Visit this unique museum to learn how modern-day scientists turned into detectives to unearth what we all want to know about mystery diseases. In addition, learn about CDC history and public health initiatives at this free museum.
As parents we wear oh so many hats—driver, coach, nurse. You name it; parents do it. And with the start of the school year just around the corner, we know you’ll be putting another hat on top of your (very tall) stack—chef. But what if someone else helped with that heavy lift, at least a little? That’s where the best Boston meal delivery services for families come in. We’ve got tons of meal kit picks that let your family sit down to a healthy, home-cooked (and often plant-based) meal that you didn’t have to plan or prep…much. Read on to let someone else do the cooking for a change.
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Clover Food Lab
While we’re sure you’ve seen this local spot around town, if their meal delivery kits haven’t made it onto your radar yet, they’re worth a look. Clover started the delivery side of their restaurant biz in the early days of the pandemic, and they’ve kept it going because it filled a need. Boston families are always on the lookout for healthy, plant-based meals they can get on the table quickly (these take anywhere from 5-15 minutes to prep). That’s what you’ll find here.
There are a few ways to get in on the action. Subscribe to the Meal Box program and count on an evolving menu within a daily category (think: Salad Mondays, Taco Tuesday or Pasta Saturdays…you get the idea). Not sure you want to commit? Simply order Meal Boxes individually to see what you think and go from there. Families can also mix and match Meal Bundles any day of the week. It comes with everything you need to make the meal, and saves you (yet another) trip to the store. Sauces, dips and produce can be added to your order to help fill in the gaps.
With a name like Mama Sezz we’re already sold on this local mom-owned meal delivery service that makes feeding your family plant-based meals super easy. Each meal serves 2-3 people, can be frozen for up to two months and is completely heat-and-eat. That means families have total flexibility to get a healthy dinner on the table whenever they need it. If you’re not so sure about plant-based or have been flirting with the idea for a while now, try their Get Me Started bundle that helps newbies know where to be begin. Their MOM bundle is another great option for families—it’s got all kinds of vegan meals your kids will absolutely love.
If a local company focused on sustainability is what’s on your family’s menu, look no further than al FreshCo. Serving the greater Boston area since 2013, they source all of their ingredients fromlocal New England farms to make their creative and healthy meals. The service works like many other—families opt in to the number of meal kids they’d like each week (one kit feeds two), place your cooler outside and get your food. If you're not quite sure you want to go all in, you can also try a one-time order. Orders are placed by Saturday (at midnight) for delivery the following Tuesday. And thesustainable packaging used to wrap these easy-prep meals will make you feel extra good about the whole experience.
Feast & Fettle is like having a private chef without someone cooking in your kitchen. The business was founded by Maggie Pearson, a former personal chef who believes busy, working families shouldn’t have to sacrifice quality for convenience. The meal delivery service puts an emphasis on high quality ingredients that are delivered locally to Rhode Island and Boston residents. The menu changes every week, incorporating seasonal trends and local partners. All meals are made in their local kitchen, then delivered to your door by their own team of delivery drivers. This model ensures your meals arrive fresh, not frozen.
Their plans for singles, couples families are highly customizable, and each menu incorporates items fit for all dietary preferences. Not sure what tastes great together? Try out the Chef's Pairings. They even have their own line of kids meals that are perfect for the picky eaters in your life.
Purple Carrot brings you plant-forward meals that are good for you and good for the planet. Families have two options when it comes to meal delivery with Purple Carrot and both are great for busy families. Boxed Meal Kits include everything you need to make a healthy dinner. All you have to do is prep and cook and call the kids down to eat. Then there's fresh, Prepared Meals (think: Italian Pasta Bowls and Chilled Curried Chickpea Salad). These tasty dishes are heat and serve, leaving you more time to do things like help with homework, make the latest after school run or even just relax (imagine that!). All meals are meat-free and easy to prepare. You can add on breakfast, lunch and snack items to get you through the week. Skip or cancel any time.
Good to know: We're crushing on Purple Carrot's Plantry ingredients like cauliflower snacking crackers and chocolate-covered oat bites that kids can grab and eat.
This cook-at-home food delivery service partnered with Martha Stewart to help harried families discover their inner Martha. The partnership gives Marley Spoon access to Martha's archive of over 18,000 tried-and-true recipes to feature in their meal kits. They promise quality purveyors offering grass-fed beef, Berkshire pork, American-caught shrimp and artisanal cheeses. The menu features 45 choices every week and the website tags meals as family-friendly, vegetarian, gluten-free and more.
Favorites include: chicken fajita bowl, bacon-wrapped skillet meatloaf and lemon-brown butter salmon. The website provides big, colorful step-by-step photos for careless cooks and kids who want to help. Also, the blog offers great tips and ideas, like what to do with lentils, immune-boosting foods and Martha’s easy Oscar party snacks. The family kit feeds four adults, so will easily feed two adults and two kids.
Freshly is a weekly subscription service delivering fresh (not frozen), chef-cooked meals that can be heated and served in three minutes. Unlike meal kits, all you need is a microwave, fork and plate (optional!) to get a satisfying lunch or dinner on the table. Think “nutritionist meets personal chef” vs. TV dinner when it comes to quality and flavor.
With a food philosophy centered on less sugar, less processed and more nutrients, the menu features better-for-you versions of comfort foods with smart ingredient swaps. For example, Chicken Parm is coated in almond flour vs. bread crumbs and topped with marinara sauce sweetened with honey instead of refined sugars; Mac and Cheese is made with brown rice pasta and cheesy sauce blended with a purée of cauliflower and butternut squash; and Turkey Meatballs are packed with mushrooms and served over zoodles for a lower-carb alternative to pasta.
If your goal is to get a wholesome, easy meal on the table for your family, then Dinnerly is the meal delivery option for you. Each week Dinnerly customers choose from over a dozen rotating options. The choices are totally kid-friendly with options like sweet and sour Swedish meatballs, turkey burgers and enchiladas. Each meal has only five prep steps and takes less than 30 minutes to get on the table. Perfect for rushed weeknight dinners! Not interested in getting your box this week? No problem. You can skip any time.
Home Chef meal kits offer fresh, pre-portioned ingredients and easy-to-follow recipes delivered weekly. You'll be able to choose from 30 different recipes that rotate on a weekly basis. Most recipes include a "Customize It" option to accommodate any dietary needs or preferences. Skip a week any time you'd like wit these meals that are convenient and kid-friendly. The 15-minute meal kits include options like Honey Garlic Chicken with Broccoli and Carrots. Or, opt for more sophisticated meals from the culinary collection like Steak and Garlic Thyme Butter with balsamic Brussels Sprouts and Parmesan Twists.
The goal of HelloFresh is to bring the fun of cooking back into people’s lives by doing all the planning, portioning and shopping for in-season, sustainably-sourced, healthy and flavorful ingredients. HelloFresh prides itself on its delicious recipes with quick cook times. All your chopping, zesting and sautéeing will take less than 30 minutes and you'll have 27 different recipes to choose from each week. Family-friendly meals include Tomato Tortellini Bake, Ginger Plum Chicken and Pork Chops with Apple Rosemary Pan Sauce.
Say goodbye to grocery shopping, meal planning and prep and all that cleanup! Gobble shops, chops and delivers gourmet three-step recipes for one-pan cooking with zero prep required. How about picky eaters? Try Pan-Seared Sirloin Steak with Roasted Fingerling Potatoes & Béarnaise Sauce or Crispy Chicken Sandwich & Napa Cabbage Slaw with Caraway Vinaigrette. New recipes are added weekly. What have you got to lose when it's just a one-pan cleanup?
Blue Apron has been part of the meal delivery game for a long time and their expertise shows. Choose among two-serving, four-serving, wellness and vegetarian menus to select the options that are right for your family. We love that the meals typically take 40 minutes or less and include kid-friendly ingredients like baked chicken and pasta, while exposing kids to different flavors like curry and chile-lime. With super easy-to-follow recipes, you can definitely get the kids involved in the cooking process.
Healthy eating at home is the name of the game with Green Chef. Choose from three plans: Keto + Paleo, Balanced Living and Plant-Powered. Set up your deliveries to come weekly or less frequently if you prefer. Menus change every week and you'll enjoy options like Steak & Cheddar Melts, Salmon with Creamy Chimichurri, and Creamy Baked Penne Pasta.
How about 100% plant-based, organic, non-GMO, chef-prepared entrees, soups and juices that just show up at your front door whenever you want them to? Then look no further than this healthy bunch (bonus: they deliver nationally, too). There are no (as in zero, zilch) animal products of any kind, here, ever! Chick'n Nuggets with chipotle dipping sauce complete with veganaise will do the trick every time for your kiddos, and no one will miss the meat. Veestro food is available a la carte, in full-on Meal Packs, and they also carry a surprisingly delicious weight loss menu plan.
As with most vegetarian cuisine: most meals have nuts in them so be careful with a nut allergy, but all meals are completely dairy-free and don't contain other allergens.
What's not to love about a meal delivery service that's focused on kids? Carefully sourced fruits and veggies, and perfectly balanced, lunches, dinners and snacks from Yumble are nutritionist-approved and kid-approved, too! Choose your kid's meals for the week and they'll be delivered free to your doorstep. The Bowl of Yays Pasta with veggie marinara and the Mighty Meatballs and Veggie Chili are crowd pleasers for sure. Each box comes with new activities for kids, making mealtime a breeze for you and a joy for them.
Families can enjoy Sunbasket two different ways, depending on your busy schedule. If you've got time to cook, Meal Kits are the way to go. Each scrumptious meal comes pre-portioned ingredients and easy-to-follow recipes; all you supply is the people power to cook it. But if you're extra short on time, you can order one of Sunbasket's Fresh & Ready meals that go from container to table in just three minutes. Hello, making it to soccer practice on time! The Meal Kits come with easy to filter options like Paleo, gluten free and vegetarian, and you can order breakfast, lunch and snacks to help with the other aspects of your busy family life too. Basically, you can go quite a long time without having to set foot in a grocery store with this to-your-door service.
Farmbox Direct offers various size boxes packed with seasonal, farm-fresh fresh fruits and vegetables delivered straight to your door. You select the shipment size, customize your box from there, then check your doorstep for easy monthly deliveries. Menus changed based on the season and you can stick with an all-organic box or go with a natural one. Add in a juicing box (red, orange or green) for a tasty boot, too.
We think the best way to celebrate National Ice Cream month is with a scoop of your favorite ice cream or gelato from one of Boston’s best ice cream shops. It’s like summer in a cup! So the next time your crew is chanting (you know the one) for their favorite summer treat, head to one of these spots families love.
Families love this small batch ice creamery in Cambridge, and it’s not just because they have inventive flavors like Horchata, Honey Lavender and Port Cherry Vanilla. We think it’s their sweet take on Taco Tuesday that makes this shop a must-visit on a sunny day. Grab street tacos from your favorite spot for dinner, followed by Honeycomb Creamery’s taco-shaped waffle cone filled with your favorite ice cream and dipped in chocolate for dessert.
When it comes to finding a great scoop of ice cream in the city, you can’t go wrong with Toscanini’s. Started in 1981, this fantastic spot is known for their creamy and flavorful cups of ice cream and their frequently rotating menu of choices. On the can’t-miss list is Toscanini’s Vienna Finger and Tiramisu.
The rock ‘n’ roll story behind Emack & Bolio’s is almost as legendary as their ice cream. And although the shop’s hours have changed over the years—from après show, late night hours to something more standard—their ice cream still rocks. Whatever flavor you choose, we suggest tricking out your treat with a covered cone (it’s kind of their thing). Get yours with Oreos, Rice Krispies or Fruity Pebbles to earn extra enthusiastic thanks from the kiddos.
When it comes to interesting ice cream flavors you can’t find anywhere else, Tipping Cow is the place. Their ice cream is made in-house and families with food sensitivities can always count on it being peanut, tree-nut and sesame-free (psst... they have non-dairy options too). We’re crushing on their original flavors like Goat Cheese and Fig, Strawberry Basil and Sweet Corn.
Named for the irresistible fish-shaped waffle cone it’s served in, Taiyaki NYC serves up Japanese-style ice cream your kids will scream for (in the “I scream, you scream” sense of the word). Fish-shaped cone? Check. Unicorn sprinkle topping? They’ve got it. What more could a kid ask for on a swelteringly hot summer day?
119 Seaport Blvd., Suite B Boston Online: taiyakinyc.com
Whether you track down one of the trucks, or visit a bakeshop location, you and the kids will be hard pressed to find a tastier ice cream sandwich anywhere else. And if you ask us, it’s the DIY aspect of the treat that makes it so good. After all, if there’s one thing we know kids always want (besides ice cream, of course), it’s to be in charge. Let them choose their favorite cookie and ice cream flavor combo to create the sweet sandwich of their dreams.
Locations in Danvers, Swampscott, Burlington and Needham. Plus food trucks (find out where they’ll be popping up next). Online: thecookiemonstah.com
If plant-based is your jam, FoMu is where you’ll find creamy vegan ice cream to enjoy. All their creative flavors are made in-house and from scratch, and the coconut milk base gives their ice creams a smooth, gelato feel. Although you might be tempted to try the avocado ice cream, don’t neglect the more traditional flavors like chocolate cookie dough, vanilla bean and cold brew ice cream when you go. They’re just as good as FoMu’s more creative flavors.
Locations in Allston, Jamaica Plain, South End and Fenway. Online: fomuicecream.com
With flavors like Ol’ Dirty Custard, Peanut the Kidnapper and Joe Bananas you might wonder what exactly is in this ice cream. Count on enticing combos that keep you and your little ice cream lovers coming back for more. Beyond these everyday flavors families can take advantage of OddFellow’s summer collection. These ice creams featuring light and fruity flavors are available for pick-up now.
Go old school with a trip to the Forge Ice Cream Bar. Whatever your hankering for, they’ve got it on their menu. Traditional scoop on a cone? Check. Shakes, ice cream sodas or a root beer float? Your kids can order it here. And if they really want to go bananas, try a Curious George (or an ice cream flight) to share.
A short flight or a road trip from the Bay Area, Mission Bay is best known as home to SeaWorld but is also an ideal family beach vacation destination. The protected bay with calm, still waters is perfect for sandy play while nearby Pacific Beach and its boardwalk is within walking distance. Nearby attractions San Diego Zoo, LEGOLAND, San Diego Zoo Safari and the brand new Sesame Place makes Mission Bay a great springboard for day trips. From windsurfing and jet skiing to lying on the beach, we loved our time in Mission Bay and think your family will, too!
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Action Sport Rentals Want to SUP, jet ski (minimum height 36”), paddle boat or kayak? Action Sports Rentals has you covered and with multiple locations in Mission Bay, is the go-to rental spot. For those who prefer to stay dry and on land, they’ve got bikes (even for kids and trailers for the littles!) and surreys for rent. We tried jet skiing as a family for the first time and our thrill-seeking kids absolutely loved it. Not only was it an adventure, but we got a unique tour of the Bay from the water.
Belmont Park This oceanfront amusement park is a quintessential family beach vacation must! Kids will love the pay-as-you-play coasters, carousel, bumper cars, zipline, climbing wall, go karts and more.
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Bahia Belle Sightseeing Cruise Hop aboard this Mississippi-style, sternwheeler boat for a tranquil one-hour cruise at sunset for views of Mission Bay that you can’t find anywhere else!
Kendall-Frost Marsh Reserve Nature enthusiasts will love the peace and quiet of this saltwater marshland with its raised platforms for birdwatching. Come for a walk at dawn or dusk for breathtaking views.
Bayside Bonfires Chairs, tables, bonfire set up and clean up (say no more) and of course, s’mores are all included in this full-service experience. This means a perfect end to a family beach day is guaranteed while roasting marshmallows under the stars—as a bonus, dazzle the kids with the magic flame add-on!
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Oceana Coastal Kitchen California cuisine at this elegant bayside eatery is the name of the game and families will love the tabletop fire pits and live music on the weekends. Enjoy pre-dinner craft cocktails while the kids play nearby in the sand—it doesn’t get much better than this!
Barefoot Bar & Grill This casual waterfront restaurant at Paradise Point (more below) serves up a mean happy hour and we loved diving into their avocado toast and eggs benedict. Bonus: Kids will love playing by the lagoon while waiting for food and checking out the stingrays and leopard sharks.
Los Panchos Tacos and Cantina Since going to San Diego and not having tacos while on a family beach vacation is a sin, we sussed out the best-rated taqueria in the area. This spot is a short drive from Mission Bay and we took advantage of Taco Tuesday and got to try (and loved!) the carne asada, baja fish and cabeza (cow cheek!).
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Sushi Ota This unassuming hole-in-the-wall sushi joint is tucked in a strip mall but don’t let looks fool you; we had some of the freshest and tastiest sushi ever (the toro was out of this world good)! Udon and beef/chicken teriyaki is also available for the non-sushi inclined crowd.
Ramen Ryoma After a long beach day, slurping down oodles of noodles (the shoyu ramen was a winner here) and savory Japanese tapas is my family’s idea of a great end to the day. But save room for…
Handel’s Ice Cream Is it even a family beach vacation if you don’t have ice cream? We didn’t think so either. Handel’s has a bit of a cult following and it's not unusual to see long lines at this walk-up counter which is fine as you’ll need every minute to wrestle with which flavor(s) to get as they have a LOT.
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Paradise Point Resort and Spa A tiki torch-lined driveway transports you to San Diego’s island resort where gorgeously manicured lawns, lush foliage and lagoons teeming with wildlife will make you wonder if you accidentally ended up in Hawaii. An iconic observation tower offers a bird’s eye view of the resort and its surrounding areas including the five (heated) pools and mini-golf course.
The kids zone activities (on select days) offer a break from the sun with rock painting and tie-dye arts. An island treasure hunt, tennis courts, bike tour/rentals and skateboarding lessons means kids here will be busy…and happy!
Bayside bungalows open right to the sandy beach where families can enjoy lazy days in the sand and calm waters by simply walking through the back door. The convenience of getting kids on/off the beach without lugging a ton of equipment (and sand!) into the car will give you more time to relax and enjoy the glorious sunsets with the family on the beach—you are in Paradise after all!
Editor’s note: This trip was sponsored by Discover Mission Bay and Paradise Point Resort, but all opinions expressed here belong to the writer.
You’ve planned your budget for the year and clipped your coupons, and now you’re wondering—what’s next when it comes to saving a buck? We know life can get expensive, so we found 20 ways to put cash back into your wallet. From ditching the plastic water bottle to packing your own snacks, here’s how to save up to $5 a day, starting now.
1. Cancel subscriptions you don't use. You can use a service like Trim to automatically detect subscription charges and easily save up to $5 per day by canceling music, audiobook and tv streaming services, beauty boxes, magazine or newspaper subscriptions, water delivery services, etc.
2. Get a reusable water bottle. On average, a bottle of water costs around $1.50 (or more if you don't buy in bulk!). If you drink three or four a day, that's over $5 a day. Get an insulated water bottle, and start filling up on your own. Not only will you see immediate savings, but you'll help prevent plastic bottles from filling landfills and polluting oceans.
3. Look for free or cheap entertainment. There are plenty of ways to save while out and about with the kids. Take advantage of your zoo or museum membership, go to a park, hit up the library, look for free festivals and more.
4. Don't make expensive meals. Do your kids love seafood or filet mignon? Yeah, save those recipes for special occasions. Instead, use ingredients that'll give you more bang for your buck. For example, these dinner ideas each cost $15 or less. For a family of four or more, that's $5 back in the bank every time you cook.
5. Eliminate one convenient thing from your routine. We know you'd rather send your clothes the dry cleaner than handwash them, and of course, a salon pedicure is always a treat, but eliminating these small items and doing the tasks at home, even once in a while, is guaranteed to save you money.
6. Pack your snacks. Whether you're at the park or the office, bring snacks from home with you, so you don't have to dole out dollars for overpriced packaged items (especially when you're at theme parks or other places that charge a small fortune for food).
8. Stay out of Target/Walmart/Costco. It's a given that the more often you wander the aisles of your favorite bulk store, the more often you'll end up with stuff you don't need. Try going once every other week. We guarantee your wallet will see the difference.
9. Go to your own bank's ATM. If you hit up a cash machine that isn't your bank, you'll get hit with a fee (sometimes it's almost $4!), plus, your bank charges you too. If you need cash, plan and stop by your bank.
10. Let those items sit in your shopping cart for one more day. We've all been guilty of loading up our online shopping carts with more than we need. If you hang tight for a day or two, it's a good chance you might decide against a few items.
11. Look for free workouts or work out at home. Sign up for the newsletters and subscribe to the Facebook pages of your favorite studios. They often offer promotions for new clients and discounts for bringing a friend. Or, check out some of our favorite (and free) 15-minute workouts for busy parents.
12. Bike/walk/take the bus to school/work. You'll save big on gas if you can bike to school (or work). If you don't live close enough to bike in, carpool with neighbors (or put your kids on the bus) and co-workers so you don't have to fuel up your car as often—and you'll also get to use the carpool lane––it's a win-win.
13. Make stuff in bulk.Make-ahead meals are as popular as ever, for both the time it saves on a busy weeknight and the budget-friendly portions you'll have in the freezer.
14. Shop without the kids. If you can, it's better to shop sans kids, who tend to toss unwanted items into the cart and make us all veer off course to spend money on things we don't want (or need) to buy.
15. Join your local Buy Nothing Facebook Group. Most neighborhoods now have a dedicated "Buy Nothing" group on Facebook. It's free and easy to join, and you can score serious deals by scrolling through the posts highlighting what other members are giving away. If there's no Buy Nothing group in your area, arrange a clothing swap with your friends.
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16. Only shop for one week's worth of food at a time. Finance guru Tony Steuer suggests to "make a weekly menu and purchase only food you need. The average American household throws away over $2,000 of food each year, which besides being wasteful, is a lot of money. This works out to just over $6 a day."
17. Stash your cash. Whenever you pay in cash and get a $5 bill as change, stash it in a safe place. Cash tends to just disappear from our wallets, so you won't miss this money by putting it aside... and it will add up quickly!
18. Only eat out on discount nights. Lots of restaurants offer Kids Eat Free with an adult entree or a Taco Tuesday special.
19. Adjust your tax withholdings. If you claim more on your W-4, you'll get more back in your paycheck. From there, divert the savings into a high-yield savings account.
When it comes to getting kids to eat their veggies, sometimes it’s best to outsource it. Even if your fam doesn’t follow a plant-based diet, these vegan restaurants are built to please, serving up go-to kid faves like pizza, burgers and tacos. Read on for the best family-friendly spots to be meatless in Seattle.
When it comes to vegan fare, it doesn’t get any better than this popular spot on Capitol Hill. Whether you sit down for dinner or do brunch on the weekend, families will always find delish dishes with everyone in mind. Plum Bistro is the go-to spot for people with special dietary needs for a reason (they’ve got lots of gluten- soy- and nut-free menu items too). Our kid pick? It’s gotta be the famous Mac & Yease.
1429 12th Ave. Seattle, WA 206-838-5333 Online: plumbistro.com
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If you need a burger, you can find a plant-based one at Uneeda Burger in Fremont. This quintessential burger spot recently rolled out vegan and vegetarian menu options that are sure to cure your cravings including a Buddha Bowl that's all about happy tummies and immune systems, a feel-good garden salad and vegetarian chili. But if a burger is still what you're after, try the new veggie burger that includes a house-made patty topped with portabella mushrooms, pickled red onion, tomatoes and other fresh fixings. The best part? Feel free to sub a veggie patty into any of their burgers for a healthier, meatless option.
4302 Fremont Ave. N. Seattle, WA 206-547-2600 Online: uneedaburger.com
Need a vegan twist for your family’s Taco Tuesday? Try tamales instead. Families can pick up fresh-made vegan and vegetarian tamales any day of the week at their walk-up window in Green Lake. Get them steamed and ready to eat or frozen for a simple reheat, at-home dinner option. Our kid pick here has got to be the sweet potato harvest tamal.
Good to know: They also offer free delivery around the city and beyond when you order a dozen tamales (or more!).
6412 Latona Ave. N.E. Seattle, WA 206-523-6654 Online:frelardtamales.com
Next Level Burger
Next Level Burger
Eating to save the planet is more than a hashtag at this family-owned restaurant. It’s a mission. And you can join in just by ordering some of the best vegan food in town. Whether your fam is team NLB (Next Level Burger) or NLC (Next Level Clucker), everything on the menu tastes great and is completely plant-based. Hello creamy shakes! When it comes to kid eats, try the Kids Chik’n Tenders
Good to know: Order a limited Plant-A-Tree Shake in April and NLB will plant a tree for you.
Another go-to spot for vegan eats, you can’t go wrong at Café Flora. We’re fans of their outdoor patio and the newly opened Flora Bakehouse (1511 S. Lucille St.) where you definitely have to try one of the vegan cinnamon rolls. Expect vegetarian and vegan sandwich, salad and entrée options at the restaurant. Give the Kid’s Black Bean Burger with yam fries a try when you go.
2901 E. Madison St. Seattle, WA 206-325-9100 Online:cafeflora.com
This Roosevelt restaurant has a long history in the city—dating back to 2003. It’s seen a few different locations and has expanded its menu, but since the beginning breakfast has been the specialty here. Families will find lots of plant-based scrambles, breakfast burritos, pancakes and biscuits that’ll fill you up before you start the day. If a vegan breakfast is what your kiddo is craving, try the pancakes or French toast for kids.
Because everyone should enjoy baked goods, Flying Apron has been serving up gluten-free and plant-based sweet and savory options for nearly 20 years. Whether you’re looking for pastries, pies, cakes or donuts for a special occasion or a “just-because” treat, or need a savory soup, salad or scramble for lunch, you’ll find it freshly made here. Try a slice of the pizza with the kids.
Good to know: Every Thursday you’ll find fresh made beignets at Flying Apron. Now to decide if you want cinnamon & sugar or powdered sugar… or both.
4709 California Ave. S.W. Seattle, WA 206-442-1115 Online: flyingapron.com
When you’re craving a loaded dog, there’s no better spot for plant-based eaters than Cycle Dogs. With creative twists on the basic hot dog (or brat), each bite is as exciting as it is meat-free. We can’t wait to see what new items will be on the menu when they finally expand into their new brick-and-mortar spot. Order up a Simple Dog for your kids when you go to set them on the right path.
Good to know: Cycle Dogs is moving from the food truck to their new Ballard space between April 5 & 13. They won’t be taking orders during that time.
5410 17th Ave. N.W. Seattle, WA 206-372-8510 Online:cycledogs.biz
Substitute burgers, nachos, wraps or tacos from Veggie Grill for your fast food staples and you’ll be eating healthier in no time. Their expansive menu means everyone in the fam can find something to eat in one spot, and with takeout and delivery options, you can have the family fed in no time flat. The Kids’ Crispy Fish is the way to go here.
Good to know: The Family Meal Deal ($39.95) is a great fast-food alternative for busy weeknights.
Downtown Seattle 1427 Fourth Ave. Seattle, WA 98101 206-624-1332
South Lake Union 446 Terry Ave. N. Seattle, WA 98109 206-623-0336
University Village 2681 N.E. University Village St. Seattle, WA 98105 206-523-1961
Because pizza is always a hit with kids, take them to Pi Vegan Pizzeria in the Roosevelt neighborhood to get their fix. In addition to the specialty pies (think: Magic Mac, Margherita and Pepperoni Plus), families can build their own. Load on the cheese (they use Teese Mozzarella as a base, but also offer cashew ricotta, tofu feta and a few Follow Your Heart options too), choose a sauce and pile on the toppings your kids love for the perfect pie.
5301 Roosevelt Way N.E. Seattle, WA 206-343-1415 Online:pizzapivegan.com
It’s not rocket science. The people we open up to are the people we like. We share most freely with our spouse or our dearest friends or a trusted relative. Maybe we share with the Uber driver, but that’s probably because that Uber driver is a good listener. Or maybe he makes you laugh with a story about a previous passenger that wanted a ride to the grocery store at 2 a.m. to bowl watermelons down the aisles. When you find yourself opening up to tell that driver about your grandpa, who also loved to bowl, you’re not feeling judged. You’re not annoyed. You’re enjoying yourself. You open up because you like chatting with the dude.
Our kids are no different. When talking openly engages them, when it’s interesting and fun, and when they feel safe, they’re inclined to speak freely. When conversation feels like a chore, well then…who likes chores?
Sharing Is Caring.
Sharing about ourselves is an act of giving. Revealing personal information can make us uncomfortable and it’s often much easier not to share. There is vulnerability in opening up; we instinctually hold back if we feel unsafe or if it just doesn’t feel good.
And yet, no matter how fun, non-judgmental, and warm of a parent you are, it’s the order of nature—parents want to know, know, know. And there are times or phases in a child’s life that all they want to do is roll eyes and not share. The age-old saga. You ask and they gape. So how to get them gabbing when your parenty-ness and their kiddiness gets you in a quiet rut?
Give Your Kid the Power.
We all like to feel as if we’re “in the know.” Whether we’re sharing hard-won wisdom gleaned through lived experience, how to disguise kale in kid food, or juicy gossip, having information that others deem valuable makes us feel important. Try making your child feel like what they’ve got in that little head of theirs is valuable. Rather than “What did you do at school today?” try “Teach me something you learned today.” They’ve got stuff they can teach? Suddenly, they’re in charge, and with that comes the feeling that they’re “in the know” and perhaps the feeling that they’ll want to share.
The Spotlight Can Be Blinding.
Questions can make some kids feel like they’re on the spot. Try a simple rewording like “I was thinking about you on the playground today and I wonder who you played with.” It’s a subtle difference from “Who the heck did you play with at recess?” And yet it can change the flow of conversation. In addition, “Kids often open up more in the car, on a walk, or in the dark—all times when eye contact is limited,” says Dr. Laura Markham, Clinical Psychologist and author of three best-selling books on peaceful parenting.
Go First.
Let me tell you what I did today…You’re curious, right? When you tell your child about your day, and not just the dull “I went to work” kind of stuff, but the good, nitty-gritty interesting stuff, you grease the wheel for a good convo. Who doesn’t love a story about a co-worker dribbling mustard on his shirt at lunch? Plus, when you mention how you loaned him the spare shirt from your gym bag, you model kindness and preparedness for the kiddo. It might be an underhanded way of dropping some wisdom nuggets on the youngster, but there’s no lesson like a disguised lesson in the game of parenting.
Games. They’re Fun.
Two Truths and a Lie. The Would-You-Rather game. 20 Questions. Even a simple guessing game with hints. “Seems like you’re bummed out. I’ll bet you a lollipop I can guess why.” Yes, your child may figure out what you’re up to. But bringing fun into a conversation could be all that’s needed to get your child chatty.
Ritualize.
However you shape it, be it Taco Tuesday or Sunday Funday, cement a time when you share. Some families share what they’re grateful for that week. Others do Rose Thorn Bud, discussing their best moment, their worst, and what they’re looking forward to. Add a special element to make the ritual unique (like ice cream sandwiches or a TV show your family loves) and the event will really be a show stopper.
Don’t Give Advice. It’s Annoying.
It’s hard to resist giving suggestions. Especially when kids are complaining. It’s our instinct as parents to want to fix things for our children. But according to Adele Faber, co-author of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, when parents try to talk kids out of what they’re feeling that’s the fastest way to get them to clam up. “Instead,” she suggests, “nod to let him know you’re actively listening, or say something neutral like, ‘Oh, that’s what’s bothering you.’ Or ‘Sounds as if that could be pretty upsetting.” This way you’re demonstrating to your child that you get it.
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Most likely if you find your child talking less to you, it’s because they’re talking more to their friends. This is completely developmentally appropriate. Still you don’t want teens or pre-teens going dark on you. Often kids start gabbing with their buddies and forget you’re there—giving you some fodder to follow up with them on later. All’s fair in love and parenting after all.
And If All Else Fails, Go Ahead and Butter ‘Em Up.
Do something out of the ordinary with your child that they will like. Take them out to breakfast and let them be late to school. Take them shopping for a new hat or dress or pair of kicks. Go on a bike ride. Build that LEGO hamster wheel your kid has been begging you to help with. Happy kids have loose lips.
After losing a brother to suicide, Devin Tomiak was driven to understand youth resiliency. Her personal mission to strengthen her relationship with her children, develop their emotional intelligence, and improve the communication skills of her whole family led her to create The Biggies Conversation Cards for elementary-aged kids.
